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Offline hayley

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Bad stuff and good stuff (venting&positive)
« on: April 11, 2013, 11:58:41 PM »
None of which follows is directed towards anyone on here


I DON'T HAVE ALL THE ANSWERS!!!!!!

In real life I don't have many friends but the ones I do have always seem to think I know everything about anything!  I swear to God this one girl is always in a crisis over different things to the point I wonder if she makes them up, if not she's definitely a drama queen.  Comes to me with problems and bad stuff and yet I never get any of the good stuff.  Another one is really indecisive and always asks me what she should do on any given situation.  And yet when its me having problems all I get  is them trying to give me more sh**.

Needed to vent


GOOD STUFF

I haven't overdosed properly for so long I can't remember when I was last in A&E for that.  I haven't needed medical treatment for cutting for overa year i think.  Still cut a bit - its improving.

An advocacy charity is doing an assessment with me next week to get into voluntary work again.  Don't want charity shops might look at doing something in a nursing home.  The charity will support me by mentoring, going with me at least to start with and any other areas I might need help with.

So things are looking up for me and I rather think the positive outweighd the negative in this post!!!

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Re: Bad stuff and good stuff (venting&positive)
« Reply #1 on: April 12, 2013, 12:31:15 AM »
I like the good stuff  ;D

However, there's also the marmite as a downside.  ::)
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Re: Bad stuff and good stuff (venting&positive)
« Reply #2 on: April 13, 2013, 03:15:24 PM »

However, there's also the marmite as a downside.  ::)
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it's nice to read positives hayley xx xx im pleased for you xx xx


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Re: Bad stuff and good stuff (venting&positive)
« Reply #3 on: April 14, 2013, 12:53:05 AM »
Cheers for replies.

More stuff today - someeone else used me as a sounding board - fed up with it
Incident at support group, I'm the one who's got to write a letter telling himhe's excluded for 6 months and I think 6 months is too harsh.  seriously thinking of resigning from the committee - had enough of the sh** that goes with it and I'm not well enough to deal with it.

f*** surviving after the day I've had I'm gonna cut
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Re: Bad stuff and good stuff (venting&positive)
« Reply #4 on: April 14, 2013, 10:50:19 PM »
Rejected again - why do I bother
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Re: Bad stuff and good stuff (venting&positive)
« Reply #5 on: April 15, 2013, 12:48:14 AM »
Rejected again - why do I bother

sorry to hear that

hope your ok

huge hugs


I haven't overdosed properly for so long I can't remember when I was last in A&E for that.  I haven't needed medical treatment for cutting for overa year i think.  Still cut a bit - its improving.

An advocacy charity is doing an assessment with me next week to get into voluntary work again.  Don't want charity shops might look at doing something in a nursing home.  The charity will support me by mentoring, going with me at least to start with and any other areas I might need help with.

So things are looking up for me and I rather think the positive outweighd the negative in this post!!!



well done i am so happy for you

its great to hear when people have good news

huge hugs
no one wants to know
no one cares
those who do want to know,
  want to know so they can use it against me
hurt, pain, anger, destruction, death and hatred, the story of my life
all i hope for is some one i can love trust and believe loves and cares for me and wants whats best for me

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Re: Bad stuff and good stuff (venting&positive)
« Reply #6 on: April 28, 2013, 08:51:37 PM »

Well done for the good stuff!

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Re: Bad stuff and good stuff (venting&positive)
« Reply #7 on: April 28, 2013, 11:20:24 PM »
Cheers Hash - kinda ruined the good stuff - still no od though!

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