Thank you for the replies - sorry I never acknowledged them at the time.
So I "passed" all the preliminary stuff, the surgery I am registered at has been chosen for the "intervention" group rather than the "control" group. First proper appointment for that is tomorrow.
Funny, the other night, at yet another yawnfest black tie work do, my boss's friend (who is a boss somewhere else, but not my boss....you get the idea) was talking to me for over 2 hours and for some reason he *still* mentioned the marks on my arms. That are 5 years old.
He was not intrusive, or negative, and it did not make me feel uncomfortable. Only reason I mention is that it made me think, perhaps, these things are still a part of me. If a polite, professional, middle aged man still notices my physical appearance perhaps it's something I need to accept is always going to be there. And that perhaps addressing the phycological reasons could do a little airing too.
I don't know. Will be interesting to see what comes up.