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NSHN Forum Support & On Topic Forums. Some additional boards are viewable to members only => Survivor Room => Topic started by: wolfie on January 05, 2012, 12:39:27 PM
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I am 5 years sh free.
Since I have given up sh'ing my whole life has turned around.
I used to feel miserable all the time and now I don't feel miserable anymore. Everything is fine.
I have a job. I have a house. I have a car. I got married.
All the things I thought that would never happen to me, have happened since I stopped sh'ing.
I spent nearly 20 years trying to destroy myself but for the past 5 years, I have been trying my hardest to better myself and my life and it has really paid off.
I don't deserve to be treated like dirt. I was treating myself like dirt. Hurting myself. You wouldn't do the things I have done to myself to your worst enemy. I deserve better than that.
I used to be such a mess and now I am one of the most mature people I know.
It hasn't been plain sailing. I have had to put in a lot of extra work the last 5 years to make up for nearly 20 years of self destruction.
But it has been well worth it.
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Good for you wolfie!! It is lovely when members come back and update us in such a positive way :)
May your health and happiness continue xx
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Thanks Bea
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that's great news.. congratulations .. xx
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Thank you bluegem
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:) :hug2:
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*tries hard to see if I remember wolfie* :no: :;):
:raspberry: glad to see that things have gone right for you - you always deserved it and I'm sure that I used to tell you so (even though you never believed it) ..... :hug2:
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thanks rob and sky :hug2:
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Really inspirational post. Well done :)
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Wow! Wolfie, that is an amazing achievement. you should be really proud of yourself!
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Welcome back, and well done! Happy for you :hug1:
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Thank you poison ivy, dg and olivia.
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Wolfie, you got married? Wow, congratulations! All us 'old crowd' are all growing up ;D
I'm very rarely here anymore, but I wanted to say welcome back, and congratulations on the five years too!
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thank you ts!
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Wolfie!! :hug2:
Yay hun that is brilliant news, I so happy and proud (in a non patronising way).
I'm 2 and a half years SH free now and I have a job, flat, car and a lovely partner. It's hard work isn't it but so worth it. Congratulations on getting married. :)
Stormdust (was I Bluewisp when you were last here? I can't remember!)
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