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NSHN Forum Support & On Topic Forums. Some additional boards are viewable to members only => Survivor Room => Topic started by: smiler on January 14, 2013, 12:41:51 AM
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as many know i hav spent almost two years in court in a huge fight over my sons
and i have been to hell in the process
well i am back in court in a few weeks for two days to make a final decision over whether i get to be accessed to have my sons home
but all is looking good with that
i spoke to my care co ordinator just over a week ago
she has told me she uses me (odviously no name given) to get people to do the last round of therapy i did
because they did not expect the huge improvements from me outside of court let alone in court
HERES THE BEST BIT woohoo rotfl
anyone who knows my situation knows i have been fighting about eighteen months for EMDR
which they refused to give me because i am in court
its to mentally dangerous
well ......... they are now GOING TO DO THE THERAPY
she thinks and believes i am now strong enough to cope while doing it in court :creature: :hyper: :creature: :hyper: :creature:
:jump: plus I HAVE NOW DONE ABOUT THREE MONTHS WITH NO S/H WHAT SO EVER :Monkey:
no cutting
no head banging
no binge eating
no throwing up
none of it
it is hard really hard
and i really dont know i havent
well thats kinda besides the point, what matters is i havent
i just really want to take this chance to thank everyone here :hug2: :1059:
you have all been amazing
just been here
always listening and supporting
accepting my rants and tantrums and frustrations at what is happenig
thank you everyone :1059: :1059:
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i has a happy for you
i couldnt be more pleased - well done on all of this
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thank you
and thank you for all the help you have given
huge hugs
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I'm so happy for you! Well done.
I know you've really been really struggling while going through all this. Let us know how you get on in court and with the therapy.
Wishing you all the best :hug2:
Oh, and well done for being so strong and not harming in any way, that's amazing! x x
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thank you sian-may
saw my care co ordinator today, she is going to refer me to pyscologial therapys,
and in the mean time cmht will be carrying me
which if my experience has anything to say
carry me basically means they are a name above my name till my therapy starts
but from what i can figure
therapy now wont be starting while i am in court
not because they cant but because it is going to take too long for the referal to go threw
the judge has said end of this case is to finish in April
i think much as social like to talk the talk about the children need closure
they cant work fast enough and i am yet to wonder if this will close in April
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I'm not sure how you feel about the therapy part but it seems most of this is really positive :) Very pleased for you.
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What a lovely post to read smiler. Im so proud of you as i know what an ordeal you have had. Massive massive congratsbon fighting the sh. I cant imagine how difficult it must have been.
And as for the therapy.........its about b***** time they got you started. One thing that decision tells me is that they have clearly seen an improvement in how you manahe such difficult things. So again, well done.
I will be thinking of you at court.
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congrautulations hun, so lovely to read a positive post :hug2: :hug2:
xxxxxx
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going in front of the court psychologist again on thursday
part of me is bricking it
but at the same time i am looking forward to seeing what he says bout me as it will be almost a year since i last saw him
and i have changed and improved so much
but gee there is so much riding on this assessment it is unbelievable
then in court the following week on the 7th & 8th
wow busy few weeks
strangely i am not that worried bout the next hearing
go figure
is it just me or does it say some thing bout the fact that i get more bothered and stressed bout going shopping than going to court
its just another day for me now!!!