SH
"Cutting" by Steven Levenkron
"The Luckiest Girl in the World" by Steven Levenkron (this one's fiction)
"Hidden Self Harm" by Maggie Turp
SA
"The Courage to Heal" sorry, the authors excape me
"Stolen Tomorrows" by Steven Levenkron (can you guess I'm a bit of a fan of his work?)
"Broken" by Shy Keenan (very tough read, may well trigger but well worth it if you're well enough)
Depression
"Malignant Sadness: Anatomy of Depression" by Lewis Wolpert
The Dummies Guide series book on depression - good introduction
ED
"Anatomy of Anorexia"
"The Best Little Girl in the World"
"Kessa" - all by Steven Levenkron
"Stick Figure" by Lori Gottlieb