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Title: 5 years sh free
Post by: wolfie on January 05, 2012, 12:39:27 PM
I am 5 years sh free.

Since I have given up sh'ing my whole life has turned around.

I used to feel miserable all the time and now I don't feel miserable anymore. Everything is fine.

I have a job. I have a house. I have a car. I got married.

All the things I thought that would never happen to me, have happened since I stopped sh'ing.

I spent nearly 20 years trying to destroy myself but for the past 5 years, I have been trying my hardest to better myself and my life and it has really paid off.

I don't deserve to be treated like dirt. I was treating myself like dirt. Hurting myself. You wouldn't do the things I have done to myself to your worst enemy. I deserve better than that.

I used to be such a mess and now I am one of the most mature people I know.

It hasn't been plain sailing. I have had to put in a lot of extra work the last 5 years to make up for nearly 20 years of self destruction.

But it has been well worth it.
Title: Re: 5 years sh free
Post by: Bea on January 05, 2012, 12:42:05 PM
Good for you wolfie!!  It is lovely when members come back and update us in such a positive way :)

May your health and happiness continue xx
Title: Re: 5 years sh free
Post by: wolfie on January 05, 2012, 12:42:36 PM
Thanks Bea
 :wabbit:
Title: Re: 5 years sh free
Post by: unknown_member on January 05, 2012, 12:43:23 PM
that's great news.. congratulations .. xx
Title: Re: 5 years sh free
Post by: wolfie on January 05, 2012, 12:44:19 PM
Thank you bluegem
 :)
Title: Re: 5 years sh free
Post by: Skye on January 05, 2012, 08:15:20 PM
 :) :hug2:
Title: Re: 5 years sh free
Post by: Rob on January 05, 2012, 08:30:19 PM
*tries hard to see if I remember wolfie*  :no:   :;):

 :raspberry:  glad to see that things have gone right for you - you always deserved it and I'm sure that I used to tell you so (even though you never believed it) .....  :hug2:
Title: Re: 5 years sh free
Post by: wolfie on January 05, 2012, 09:59:48 PM
thanks rob and sky  :hug2:
 :kissygiraffe:
Title: Re: 5 years sh free
Post by: Olivia on January 05, 2012, 10:24:20 PM
Really inspirational post. Well done  :)
Title: Re: 5 years sh free
Post by: dg on January 05, 2012, 10:26:59 PM
Wow! Wolfie, that is an amazing achievement. you should be really proud of yourself!
Title: Re: 5 years sh free
Post by: Poison_viper on January 05, 2012, 11:26:26 PM
Welcome back, and well done! Happy for you  :hug1:
Title: Re: 5 years sh free
Post by: wolfie on January 06, 2012, 08:56:43 PM
Thank you poison ivy, dg and olivia.

 :wabbit:
Title: Re: 5 years sh free
Post by: tellingstories on January 07, 2012, 04:32:41 PM
Wolfie, you got married? Wow, congratulations! All us 'old crowd' are all growing up  ;D

I'm very rarely here anymore, but I wanted to say welcome back, and congratulations on the five years too!
Title: Re: 5 years sh free
Post by: wolfie on January 08, 2012, 03:00:45 PM
thank you ts!
 :kissygiraffe:
Title: Re: 5 years sh free
Post by: Storm Dust on January 10, 2012, 11:46:47 AM
Wolfie!! :hug2:

Yay hun that is brilliant news, I so happy and proud (in a non patronising way).

I'm 2 and a half years SH free now and I have a job, flat, car and a lovely partner. It's hard work isn't it but so worth it. Congratulations on getting married. :)

Stormdust (was I Bluewisp when you were last here? I can't remember!)
xx